When sleep becomes a messy business and create another bad habits; sleeplessness under at 12. but I suppose tonight is more precious.
Nonetheless, insomnia making me randomly thought about social media.
Social media is a place where people like being busy telling others what or where. Just like everyone cares.
Basically, peoples do that based on the needs of recognition from the others. needs to be recognized. As Maslow said (Maslow’s Hierarchy) Self-actualization is “to express and activate all the capacities of the organism - as much as possible, individual capacities in the world” that means they want to express something of the fullness or their potential to make others find the meaning of life or feel the fullness as he has enjoyed.
Social media is one of the human need for self-esteem, which would certainly better if social media is used for things that are beneficial for other human life.
In my opinion.
When I was a kid, I do not ever think of what I will be doing for the next 10 or 20 years, because what I know is: I must study in school as good as possible.
I lived with simply innocence, that all will be going smoothly like water flowing.
After graduating from school and college, a simple question that appears is: “what would you going next?”
Immediately everything becomes more complicated.
There is a life cycle in which humans lived; after graduation they wanted to work, after a few years working they wanted to marriage, after marriage they wanted to have a child, after having child they wanted to see their child graduate and then the child wanted to work. so on and so forth.
A cycle is still running.
Undeniable, reality its not as easy as we think. In some ways, reality was worse than a dream. But at least, we can still have one human life cycle which God created: to sleep. (and that’s why people love to sleep -being able to dream.)
Good night. Have a nice dream.
I believe that no one want their lives doesn’t mean anything, does not have anything to do, or did not have a chance. Especially in your productive age, I have a thousand percent that was very frustrating. Earth is no longer livable, it was like going to live on mars.
There’s a plenty of time to bow head and feel sorry for self, but does it necessary?
Indeed, there are times where it is very difficult period. When people ask what you do now, when parents began to worried, when self has big dreams but do not know what to do and the worst, when we felt to be a foolish person in the world.
But if we could sit back and throw all bad thoughts, we can found that sometimes “the waiting” is allowed happen in our lives, to think about what the next step should be done.
Waiting process is not meant for us to blame the circumstances, but to shape the character and maturity. Because the most important of it all is the attitude to face that, whether we are still full of joy when this process occurs.
Pernah kau rasakan sesuatu menyelinap kembali dalam kepalamu seolah memutar ulang kejadian yang pernah kau rekam rapi? Dan seperti ada hawa dingin masuk langsung menuju jantung hatimu tepat sasaran, menembus hingga terasa sangat kedinginan sampai-sampai kau tidak bisa bergerak. Dirimu hanya diam mematung.
Lalu beberapa saat kemudian kau sadar, yang kau lakukan barusan membuatmu kembali dalam ingatan sebulan, berbulan-bulan atau bahkan setahun yang lalu, kau masih ingat dengan jelas semua kejadian yang ada; bahkan waktu dan tempat.
Dirimu tenggelam dalam pusaran ingatan, luluh dan jatuh seakan berhubungan dengan hatimu, jatuh dalam desiran rasa tak nyaman tapi kau menikmati nya.
“God works all things according to the counsel of his will.” From the roll of the dice, to the circuits of the stars, to the rise of presidents, to the death of Jesus, to the gift of repentance and faith — he accomplishes it according to his will.